如何与神一同度过每一天How to Spend Each Day with God
How to Spend Each Day with
God
Richard Baxter
A holy life is inclined to be made easier, when we
know the usual sequence and method of our duties — with everything falling
into its proper place. Therefore, I shall give some brief directions for
spending each day in a holy manner.
Sleep
Measure the time of your sleep appropriately so that you do not waste
your precious morning hours sluggishly in your bed. Let the time of your
sleep be matched to your health and labor, and not to slothful pleasure.
First Thoughts
Let God have your first awaking thoughts; lift up your hearts to Him
reverently and thankfully for the rest enjoyed the night before, and cast
yourself upon Him for the day which follows.
Familiarize yourself so consistently to this that your
conscience may check you when common thoughts shall first intrude. Think of
the mercy of a night's rest and of how many that have spent that night in
Hell; how many in prison; how many in cold, hard lodgings; how many
suffering from agonizing pains and sickness, weary of their beds and of
their lives.
Think of how many souls were that night called from their
bodies terrifyingly to appear before God and think how quickly days and
nights are rolling on! How speedily your last night and day will come!
Observe that which is lacking in the preparedness of your soul for such a
time and seek it without delay.
Prayer
Let prayer by yourself alone (or with your partner) take place before
the collective prayer of the family. If possible let it be first, before any
work of the day.
Family Worship
Let family worship be performed consistently and at a time when it is
most likely for the family to be free of interruptions.
Ultimate Purpose
Remember your ultimate purpose, and when you set yourself to your day's
work or approach any activity in the world, let HOLINESS TO THE LORD
be written upon your hearts in all that you do. Do no activity which you
cannot entitle God to, and truly say that he set you about it — and do
nothing in the world for any other ultimate purpose than to please, glorify
and enjoy Him. "Whatever you do, do all to the glory of God." 1 Corinthians
10:31.
Diligence in Your Calling
Follow the tasks of your calling carefully and diligently.
Thus:
(a) You will show that you are not sluggish and servants
to your flesh (as those that cannot deny it ease), and you will further the
putting to death of all the fleshly lusts and desires that are fed by ease
and idleness.
(b) You will keep out idle thoughts from your mind, that
swarm in the minds of idle persons.
(c) You will not lose precious time, something
that idle persons are daily guilty of.
(d) You will be in a way of obedience to God when the
slothful are in constant sins of omission.
(e) You may have more time to spend in holy duties if you
follow your occupation diligently. Idle people have no time for praying and
reading, because they lose time by loitering at their work.
(f) You may expect God's blessing and comfortable
provision for both yourself and your families.
(g) It may also encourage the health of your body which
will increase its competence for the service of your soul.
Temptations and Things That Corrupt
Be thoroughly acquainted with your besetting temptations and the things
that may corrupt you — and watch against them all day long. You should watch
especially the most dangerous of the things that corrupt, and those
temptations that either your company or business will unavoidably lay before
you.
Watch against the master sins of . . .
unbelief,
hypocrisy,
selfishness,
pride,
flesh-pleasing and
the excessive love of earthly things.
Take care against being drawn into earthly-mindedness and
excessive cares, or covetous designs for rising in the world, under the
pretense of diligence in your calling.
If you are to trade or deal with others, be vigilant
against selfishness and all that smacks of injustice or uncharitableness. In
all your interactions with others, watch against the temptation of empty and
idle talking. Watch also against those persons who would tempt you to anger.
Maintain that modesty and cleanness of speech that the laws of purity
require.
If you converse with flatterers — be on your guard
against swelling pride.
If you converse with those that despise and injure you —
strengthen yourself against impatient, revengeful pride.
At first these things will be very difficult, while sin
has any strength in you, but once you have grasped a continual awareness of
the poisonous danger of any one of these sins, your heart will readily and
easily avoid them.
Meditation
When alone in your occupations, improve the time in practical and
beneficial meditations. Meditate upon . . .
the infinite goodness and perfections of God;
Christ and redemption;
Heaven and how unworthy you are of going there;
and how you deserve eternal misery in Hell.
The Only Motive
Whatever you are doing, in company or alone, do it all to the glory of
God (1 Corinthians 10:31). Otherwise, it is unacceptable to God.
Redeeming The Time
Place a high value upon your time, be more careful of not losing
it than you would of losing your money. Do not let . . .
worthless recreations,
worldly entertainment,
idle talk,
unprofitable company,
or sleep —
rob you of your precious time.
Be more careful to escape that person, action or course
of life which would rob you of your time — than you would be to
escape thieves and robbers.
Make sure that you are not merely never idle, but rather
that you are using your time in the most profitable way that you can, and do
not prefer a less profitable way before one of greater profit.
Eating and Drinking
Eat and drink with moderation and thankfulness for health, not for
unprofitable pleasure. Never please your appetite in food or drink, when it
is prone to be detrimental to your health.
Remember the sin of Sodom: "Look, this was the
iniquity of your sister Sodom: She and her daughter had pride, fullness of
food and abundance of idleness" Ezekiel 16:49.
The Apostle Paul wept when he mentioned those "whose end
is destruction, whose god is their belly, and whose glory is in their shame
— who set their minds on earthly things, being enemies to the cross of
Christ" Philippians 3:18-19. O then do not live according to the flesh, lest
you die! (Romans 8:13).
Prevailing Sins
If any temptation prevails against you, and you fall into any sins in
addition to habitual failures, immediately lament it and confess it to God;
repent quickly whatever the cost. It will certainly cost you more if you
continue in sin and remain unrepentant.
Do not make light of your habitual failures, but confess
them and daily strive against them, taking care not to aggravate them by
unrepentance and contempt.
Relationships
Remember every day, the special duties of various relationships: whether
as husbands, wives, children, masters, servants, pastors, people,
magistrates, subjects.
Remember every relationship has its special duty and its
advantage for the doing of some good. God requires your faithfulness in this
matter, as well as in any other duty.
Closing the Day
Before returning to sleep, it is wise and necessary to review the
actions and mercies of the day past, so that you may be thankful for
all the special mercies, and humbled for all your sins.
This is necessary in order that you might renew your
repentance as well as your resolve for obedience, and in order that you may
examine yourself to see whether your soul grew better or worse, whether sin
goes down and grace goes up, and whether you are better prepared for
suffering, death and eternity.
May these directions be engraved upon your mind and be
made the daily practice of your life.
If sincerely adhered to, these will be conducive to the
holiness, fruitfulness and quietness of your life, and
bring you to a comfortable and peaceful death.
# 如何与神一同度过每一天
理查德·巴克斯特
我们若知道每日各样本分通常的次序和方法,使每件事都各归其位,圣洁的生活往往就更容易实行。因此,我要简略指明几条准则,教你怎样以圣洁的方式度过每一天。
睡眠
要适当衡量睡眠的时间,不可懒洋洋地躺在床上,浪费清晨宝贵的光阴。睡眠多少,应当依照你的健康与劳作来安排,不可顺着懒惰的享受来安排。
醒来时最初的意念
你醒来时最初的意念,要归给神。要恭敬而感恩地向祂举心,感谢祂赐你昨夜的安歇,并为即将开始的一天把自己交托给祂。
要始终如一地养成这个习惯,以致寻常的意念一旦抢先闯入,你的良心就责备你。要思想一夜安睡的怜悯,也要思想有多少人那一夜是在地狱里度过的;有多少人在监牢里;有多少人睡在寒冷、坚硬的住处;又有多少人因剧痛和疾病受苦,厌倦自己的床,也厌倦自己的性命。
要思想那一夜有多少灵魂可怕地被召离身体,到神面前显现;也要思想日夜流逝得何等迅速!你最后的一夜和最后的一日,来得何等快!要察看你的灵魂为了那时还缺少什么预备,并且毫不迟延地寻求补足。
祷告
你独自一人(或与你的配偶一同)的祷告,应当在全家一同祷告以前进行。若是可能,这应当是一天最先做的事,放在其他一切工作之前。
家庭敬拜
要恒常举行家庭敬拜,并安排在全家最不容易受打扰的时候。
最终目的
要记住你最终的目的。当你着手一天的工作,或开始世上的任何活动时,要让「归耶和华为圣」写在你心里,贯穿你一切所行的。凡不能归给神、不能诚实地说是祂吩咐你做的事,就不可去做;世上一切的事,都不可为别的最终目的而做,只可为讨祂喜悦、荣耀祂并以祂为乐而做。「所以,你们或吃或喝,无论做什么,都要为荣耀神而行。」(哥林多前书 10:31)
殷勤尽你的职分
要谨慎而殷勤地办理你职分中的事务。这样做有以下益处:
(一)你会显明自己并不懒惰,也不作肉体的奴仆,不像那些不肯舍弃安逸的人;你也会进一步治死一切以安逸和闲懒为食粮的肉体私欲。
(二)你会把无所事事的意念挡在心外;这种意念在闲懒之人的心里成群涌现。
(三)你不会浪费宝贵的光阴;闲懒的人天天都犯浪费光阴的罪。
(四)你会走在顺服神的道路上;懒惰的人却不断犯疏忽本分的罪。
(五)你若殷勤从事自己的职业,就会有更多时间用在圣洁的本分上。闲懒的人没有时间祷告和读经,因为他们做工时拖延,把时间都浪费了。
(六)你可以盼望神赐福,给你和家人舒适的供养。
(七)这也能增进身体的健康,使身体更能服事灵魂。
试探与败坏人的事
要透彻认识最容易缠累你的试探,以及可能败坏你的事,并且终日警醒抵挡。尤其要防备其中最危险的事,也要防备你所处的同伴或所办的事务不可避免地摆在你面前的试探。
要防备以下这些居首领地位的罪:
- 不信;
- 假冒为善;
- 自私;
- 骄傲;
- 讨肉体喜悦;
- 过度贪爱地上的事。
不可借口说自己在殷勤尽职,便被属世的心和过度的忧虑牵引,也不可存贪婪的图谋,要在世上飞黄腾达。
你若要与别人做买卖或办理事务,就要警醒防备自私,也要防备一切带有不公不义或缺少爱心意味的事。你与人一切来往之中,都要防备空虚闲散的谈话所带来的试探,也要防备那些会激动你发怒的人。要在言语上持守贞洁律法所要求的端庄和纯净。
你若与谄媚你的人来往,要谨防骄傲膨胀。
你若与轻看、伤害你的人来往,要使自己刚强,抵挡急躁和报复性的骄傲。
起初,只要罪在你里面还有势力,这些事就会十分艰难;但你一旦持续意识到其中任何一种罪都带着致命的毒害,你的心就会甘愿而容易地躲避它们。
默想
你独自作工时,要善用光阴,作实际而有益的默想。要默想:
- 神无限的美善和完全;
- 基督与救赎;
- 天国,以及你何等不配进入那里;
- 你又何等当受地狱永远的痛苦。
惟一的动机
无论你在做什么,无论与人同在还是独处,一切都要为荣耀神而做(哥林多前书 10:31);否则,你所做的就不蒙神悦纳。
爱惜光阴
要极其看重你的光阴,谨防失去时间,甚至比谨防失去金钱更加留心。不可让以下这些事夺走你宝贵的光阴:
- 毫无价值的娱乐;
- 属世的消遣;
- 闲谈;
- 无益的同伴;
- 睡眠。
任何会夺去你光阴的人、行为或生活方式,你都要躲避;躲避它们,甚至要比躲避盗贼和强盗更加谨慎。
你不但要确保自己从不闲懒,还要确保自己尽可能以最有益的方式使用时间,不可把益处较少的方式放在益处较大的方式之前。
饮食
饮食要有节制,也要为健康存感恩的心,不可以无益的享受为目的。你的食欲若会损害健康,就绝不可在饮食上纵容它。
要记住所多玛的罪:「看哪,你妹妹所多玛的罪孽是这样:她和她的众女都心骄气傲,粮食饱足,大享安逸。」(以西结书 16:49)
使徒保罗提到那些人时流泪说:「因为有许多人行事是基督十字架的仇敌。我屡次告诉你们,现在又流泪地告诉你们:他们的结局就是沉沦;他们的神就是自己的肚腹。他们以自己的羞辱为荣耀,专以地上的事为念。」(腓立比书 3:18-19)所以,切不可顺从肉体活着,免得死亡!(罗马书 8:13)
占上风的罪
如果某个试探胜过了你,使你在惯常的过犯以外又陷入别的罪,就要立刻为此哀恸,向神认罪;无论悔改要付出什么代价,都要赶快悔改。你若继续留在罪中,不肯悔改,所付的代价必定更大。
不可轻看你惯常的过犯,却要承认它们,并且天天竭力抵挡,谨防因不肯悔改和藐视它们而使罪更加严重。
各样关系
每天都要记住各种关系中特有的本分:无论是丈夫、妻子、儿女、主人、仆人、牧者、百姓、官长还是臣民。
要记住,每一种关系都有它特有的本分,也给人行某种善事的便利。神要求你在这件事上忠心,正如祂要求你在其他一切本分上忠心一样。
一日结束
在你再次睡下以前,回顾过去一天所行的事和所蒙的怜悯,既是明智,也是必要;这样,你就能为每一样特别的怜悯感谢神,也能为自己一切的罪降卑。
你必须这样做,好重新悔改,重新立志顺服;也好省察自己,看灵魂是变得更好还是更坏,罪是否衰微、恩典是否增长,又看自己是否为受苦、死亡和永恒作了更充分的预备。
愿这些准则铭刻在你心里,成为你每日生活的实行。
你若真诚持守这些准则,它们就会使你的生活更加圣洁、多结果子并且安静,也会领你安然而平静地离世。